Today is the day of love according to tradition. Sitting here thinking about love makes me smile. Thinking about the fact that others view today as the day one gives or receives chocolate and teddy bears makes me thankful for a greater awareness of true love. In this moment I ponder the depth of loves expression, an expression that couldn't possibly be reduced to candy and stuffed animals. Don't get me wrong, I believe gifts are an aspect of this expression and I gladly welcome all thoughtful gestures. Seeing the beautiful colored roses and the sheer glee displayed on the faces of others brings me great joy. My only concern is that we forget the rest of the days in a year as though they are not worthy of kind, creative, and special gestures of love. Valentines Day should be a day of honoring what is consistently given throughout the year, in every moment we're afforded the opportunity to love and be loved. When you are blessed to have someone in your life who is consistent in their love for you and the expression of that love, Valentines day simply serves as a mirrored vision of yesterday and previews the promise of love in tomorrow. So by all means celebrate! But after the candy has been eaten and the teddy bear is no longer a prized figure proudly displayed on the kitchen table or across the bed, remember that true love is everyday love. This gift can be given and received whether single, married, or dating. It's depth and reach is greater than romance, sweeter than candy, and more beautiful than any extravagant floral arrangement. Let the celebration not end tonight, but may you continue to create an environment of overflowing love in all of your relationships, so much that it couldn't possibly be contained in one day.
J.H.
